Communication is a vital part of any and every relationship. It can take a long time to build good communication, but like the cliche says, "Communication is key." I dated an amazing guy for a couple years before he left of his mission. At first, our communication was horrible and although we didn't fight, we didn't have a strong relationship. It took some time, but once we got our communication down, our relationship seemed perfect in every way; everything else fell into place.
If you have important matters to discuss, I suggest doing the following:
1. Have an idea of what needs to be said.
2. Designate a time and place for a meeting to discuss these matters.
3. Start by expressing love for each other.
4. Have a prayer, inviting the Spirit to reveal Heavenly Father's will.
5. Discuss and talk until everyone comes to agreement.
6. Close with prayer, thank Heavenly Father.
7. Share refreshements.